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What happens when the girl who learned to take care of everyone becomes the woman everyone relies on at work? Today is Eldest Daughter Day. And as an eldest daughter myself, I appreciate the observation. I believe eldest daughters deserve their flowers. We are often the responsible ones. The dependable ones. The ones who […]
The hardest part of changing how you lead isn’t knowing you’re exhausted. You already know. You know you’re carrying too much. You know you’re the person everyone comes to. You know your calendar is full of things that technically aren’t your responsibility. You know you’re saying yes when you mean no. You know you’re still […]
I LOVE my career. I love the diversity of my work, the people I’ve met along the way, and the fact that I’ve never really been someone who wanted to do just one thing. I also love my current work schedule. As I move through my 50s, I’m finding that my personal and professional goals […]
Women are dying of competence. Not because competence is the problem. Because competence has become a permission slip for everyone else to ask for more. You’ve proved you can handle things. So you get more responsibility. You solved the problems. So you become the person everyone depends on. You maintained compounds under pressure. So […]
Did you know August is Professional Speakers Month, Black Business Month, and American Adventures Month? Three very different observances on the surface, but here’s the message they all have in common: Being willing to take up space. To use your voice. To build something of your own. To go somewhere you haven’t been before. […]
This blog post is going to be short and sweet. Today is Wednesday, July 29, 2026, and it is day 90 of my 90-Day Momentum Journey. I accomplished my goal! Every day for the last 90 days, I posted at least one video of myself showing my face and using my voice. I challenged […]
If it were as simple as “just say no,” more women would. High-performing women are told to just “set better boundaries” and the advice ends there. As if the problem is a lack of confidence. Or poor time management. Or not knowing how to say no. But leadership conditioning changes the equation. When you’ve […]
I wasn’t handed a leadership rule book. No one said… Always volunteer. Don’t be the angry Black woman. Never let them see you struggle. And yet… Somehow, I knew those rules. What I did hear was… Work twice as hard. Always be grateful. Be prepared. Maybe you did too. Some rules were spoken. Some […]
“If I don’t do it, it won’t get done.” For many high-performing Women of Color, this isn’t just a mindset. It’s leadership conditioning. Many of us learned early that we had to be twice as prepared, twice as productive, and twice as dependable just to be seen as equally competent. So we became the ones […]