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I wasn’t handed a leadership rule book. No one said… Always volunteer. Don’t be the angry Black woman. Never let them see you struggle. And yet… Somehow, I knew those rules. What I did hear was… Work twice as hard. Always be grateful. Be prepared. Maybe you did too. Some rules were spoken. Some […]
“If I don’t do it, it won’t get done.” For many high-performing Women of Color, this isn’t just a mindset. It’s leadership conditioning. Many of us learned early that we had to be twice as prepared, twice as productive, and twice as dependable just to be seen as equally competent. So we became the ones […]
What I know for sure is that by the time many women become managers, directors, or executives, they’ve already been leading for years. Not because anyone gave them the title. Because everyone gave them the responsibility. They were the dependable one. The helper. The peacekeeper. The problem solver. Sound familiar? Somewhere along the way, […]
Even when you’re off the clock… you’re not really off. You’re still thinking about what didn’t get done. Fixing things in your head that haven’t even happened yet. And on the outside, it looks like you’re “on top of things.” But inside, it feels like you can never fully exhale. Because there’s always something […]
“If I don’t do it, it won’t get done.” Have you ever caught yourself saying that? Not out loud necessarily. Maybe just in your head. As you volunteered for another project. Solved another problem. Stayed late. Checked on everyone else. Picked up what someone else dropped. Handled what no one else seemed willing to […]
June is: • Professional Wellness Month • National Safety Month • Great Outdoors Month And at the intersection of all three is a leadership truth we don’t talk about enough: The environments we create shape the outcomes we experience. As leaders, we often focus on goals, performance, and results. But sustainable success isn’t built […]
For too long, leadership culture has rewarded exhaustion, overfunctioning, hypervisibility without support, and self-sacrifice disguised as commitment. Especially for high-performing Women of Color. Many of us were taught that survival was leadership. That overextending ourselves was professionalism. That shrinking, silencing ourselves, and carrying more than everyone else was simply the cost of being respected, […]
Most high-performing Women of Color are not struggling because they are incapable. They are struggling because they have normalized professional survival mode. There is a difference. Professional survival mode is not simply stress or burnout. It is a leadership pattern rooted in: • over-functioning • hyper-responsibility • urgency-based decision making • constant proving • […]
Somewhere along the way, many leaders started confusing dysfunction with dedication. Exhaustion became proof of commitment. Overextending became professionalism. Constant urgency became leadership. But operating in survival mode does not make someone an effective leader. It makes them depleted. Running on empty is not a leadership strategy. Ignoring your own needs is not evidence […]