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February is often framed as a month of love— but rarely the kind women in leadership are taught to practice with themselves. For high-performing leaders, especially Women of Color, self-love has been mischaracterized as indulgence instead of infrastructure. But under S.O.F.T. Leadership™, self-love is essential. It is wise. It is protective. It […]
For years, leadership conversations have framed growth as a move from surviving to thriving. While well‑intentioned, that framing often misses what high‑performing leaders are actually navigating. Many leaders are not struggling because they lack resilience, motivation, or skill. They are navigating success that has been shaped by survival mode—a way of leading that prioritizes […]
I’m happy to share that I was featured on the Revolutionary Social Work Podcast hosted by Christian “Ace” Stettler — a space dedicated to challenging how social work is taught, practiced, and imagined. In this dynamic conversation on macro social work, social work education, and what it takes to create truly meaningful internship and […]
When I teach and talk about S.O.F.T. Leadership™, I’m not asking leaders to abandon rigor, results, or responsibility. I’m asking them to return to what actually works. Here’s how Sesame Street mirrors my S.O.F.T. framework: Strategy: Asking Before Acting On Sesame Street, understanding always comes before instruction. That’s Strategy in S.O.F.T. Leadership™—leading with curiosity […]
January is more than a fresh start — it’s a powerful catalyst where leadership, identity, and sustainability meet. As organizations set goals, assess priorities, and plan for the year ahead, January offers a rare window to pause and ask deeper questions:How are we leading? Who are we centering? And what kind of leadership will […]
Happy New Year! As I’ve pondered my 2026 word of the year, I’ve been thinking a lot about how we lead ourselves before we lead others. Most of us start a new year with a mix of reflection and forward momentum, but I kept coming back to one thought that feels bigger than “goal-setting.” […]
Since 2014, I’ve shared These 3 Words as a monthly practice—an intentional pause for introspection, inspiration, aspiration, and validation. Some years, the words arrive with diversity. Some years, they arrive with uniformity. In 2025, one word anchored everything: Thrive. Not hustle. Not endure. Not “push through.” Thrive. Over the course of the year, that […]
The Winter Solstice on Sunday, 12/21/25, marked the shortest day and the longest night of the year. It was a quiet threshold moment when darkness peaks and light began its slow return. You already know how much I love summer, but the Winter Solstice offered a leadership lesson I’ve learned to respect. Because winter […]
For many high-performing Women of Color in leadership, the holiday season is anything but restful. It’s a time of year layered with expectations — at work, in our families, in our communities, and within ourselves. We’re closing out budgets and initiatives, showing up for end-of-year celebrations, holding space for others’ emotions, and often carrying […]