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I’m happy to share that I was featured on the Revolutionary Social Work Podcast hosted by Christian “Ace” Stettler — a space dedicated to challenging how social work is taught, practiced, and imagined. In this dynamic conversation on macro social work, social work education, and what it takes to create truly meaningful internship and […]
When I teach and talk about S.O.F.T. Leadership™, I’m not asking leaders to abandon rigor, results, or responsibility. I’m asking them to return to what actually works. Here’s how Sesame Street mirrors my S.O.F.T. framework: Strategy: Asking Before Acting On Sesame Street, understanding always comes before instruction. That’s Strategy in S.O.F.T. Leadership™—leading with curiosity […]
January is more than a fresh start — it’s a powerful catalyst where leadership, identity, and sustainability meet. As organizations set goals, assess priorities, and plan for the year ahead, January offers a rare window to pause and ask deeper questions:How are we leading? Who are we centering? And what kind of leadership will […]
Happy New Year! As I’ve pondered my 2026 word of the year, I’ve been thinking a lot about how we lead ourselves before we lead others. Most of us start a new year with a mix of reflection and forward momentum, but I kept coming back to one thought that feels bigger than “goal-setting.” […]
Since 2014, I’ve shared These 3 Words as a monthly practice—an intentional pause for introspection, inspiration, aspiration, and validation. Some years, the words arrive with diversity. Some years, they arrive with uniformity. In 2025, one word anchored everything: Thrive. Not hustle. Not endure. Not “push through.” Thrive. Over the course of the year, that […]
The Winter Solstice on Sunday, 12/21/25, marked the shortest day and the longest night of the year. It was a quiet threshold moment when darkness peaks and light began its slow return. You already know how much I love summer, but the Winter Solstice offered a leadership lesson I’ve learned to respect. Because winter […]
For many high-performing Women of Color in leadership, the holiday season is anything but restful. It’s a time of year layered with expectations — at work, in our families, in our communities, and within ourselves. We’re closing out budgets and initiatives, showing up for end-of-year celebrations, holding space for others’ emotions, and often carrying […]
There’s a truth I’ve learned over years of coaching high-performing Women of Color: Burnout doesn’t just drain your energy. Compassion fatigue doesn’t just exhaust your spirit. Both quietly chip away at the foundation every courageous leader depends on — self-trust. This loss isn’t loud. It doesn’t announce itself. It shows up quietly, almost undetected: […]
I’ve always been a self-reflective person. I journal. I check in with myself. I notice my emotions and patterns. But somewhere in the middle of years of overworking and over-delivering, a simple internal question stopped me: “Nicki… what do you want?” I Didn’t Know I Was Disconnected Until I Tried to Answer That Simple […]