I don’t think I’ve ever blogged about my religious views (I’m a Christian) but today I want to share the Father’s Day message that was presented at my church on yesterday. Mr. Etan Thomas delivered a powerful “call to action” to adults challenging us to reach out to and embrace our youth. Prior to yesterday, I had no idea that Etan Thomas is a husband, father, author, speaker, and community activist who played professionally in the National Basketball Association. Etan was raised by his mother in a single parent home but never fell victim to the stereotypes and tragedies in his community.
Since releasing his second book,Fatherhood Rising To The Ultimate Challenge, last year, Etan has traveled the US empowering young people with the message that they can be anything they want to be in life despite their current circumstances. He speaks in middle and high schools, colleges, prisons, and to professional and social justice organizations.
Etan’s Father’s Day message at First Baptist Church of Glenarden was direct, honest, relevant, and impactful. He was not demeaning or egotistical. Because of his deep compassion, the lives of adults and young people were changed yesterday. I was ecstatic!
Key messages from the presentation:
- Encourage youth by speaking life to them (stop bombarding them with disappointment, destruction, and death)
- Understand that the clothing, profanity, and crime are a symptom of a deeper problem plaguing our young people
- Show that you care – let young people know that they deserve a better life
- Stop judging and rejecting youth – invite them in and embrace them with love
- Listen to youth – give them the opportunity to share their hurts, fears, and dreams
- Let youth know that their potential is limitless – all young people can achieve and succeed with support
Sound familiar?!
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