What if the version of you you’ve been looking for isn’t someone you have to become? What if she’s someone you need to reclaim? Because somewhere along the way, leadership conditioning may have taught you to become a version of yourself that could survive success. The dependable one. The agreeable one. The one who always
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Sometimes the reward for being the most capable person in the room is becoming the person everyone expects to carry the room. You finish the project. You get another one. You solve the problem. Now everyone brings you their problems. You demonstrate leadership. Now you’re given more responsibility without more authority. You become indispensable.
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I LOVE my career. I love the diversity of my work, the people I’ve met along the way, and the fact that I’ve never really been someone who wanted to do just one thing. I also love my current work schedule. As I move through my 50s, I’m finding that my personal and professional goals
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This blog post is going to be short and sweet. Today is Wednesday, July 29, 2026, and it is day 90 of my 90-Day Momentum Journey. I accomplished my goal! Every day for the last 90 days, I posted at least one video of myself showing my face and using my voice. I challenged
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If it were as simple as “just say no,” more women would. High-performing women are told to just “set better boundaries” and the advice ends there. As if the problem is a lack of confidence. Or poor time management. Or not knowing how to say no. But leadership conditioning changes the equation. When you’ve
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I wasn’t handed a leadership rule book. No one said… Always volunteer. Don’t be the angry Black woman. Never let them see you struggle. And yet… Somehow, I knew those rules. What I did hear was… Work twice as hard. Always be grateful. Be prepared. Maybe you did too. Some rules were spoken. Some
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What I know for sure is that by the time many women become managers, directors, or executives, they’ve already been leading for years. Not because anyone gave them the title. Because everyone gave them the responsibility. They were the dependable one. The helper. The peacekeeper. The problem solver. Sound familiar? Somewhere along the way,
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When organizations evaluate their internship programs, they often focus on one question: “Did the intern complete their hours?” It’s a simple metric. It’s easy to track. And it completely misses the point. Because the true value of an internship program isn’t measured in hours. It’s measured in development. The Problem with Traditional ROI Thinking
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Many organizations believe they have a “good” internship program. Interns are placed. Tasks are assigned. Hours are completed. On the surface, everything appears to be working. But here’s the real question: Is your internship program actually developing talent—or just managing it? Because those are not the same thing. The Hidden Gap in Internship Programs
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April is a significant month for me. Because where others see separate observances…I see a leadership pipeline. April is: National Internship Awareness Month• Stress Awareness Month• Financial Literacy Month And at the intersection of all three is a conversation we are not having enough in leadership spaces. As a social work leader who has supervised
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