Today’s blog post is dedicated to biological parents and foster parents.
This week begins National Youth Violence Prevention Week. I know I don’t have to tell you about the terrible epidemic of youth on youth violence and bullying happening in this country. The media has decided to “educate” us on the problem by reposting vicious Twitter and Facebook statuses and violent altercations downloaded to YouTube.
I would like to offer three simple solutions to prevent youth violence.
1. Connect youth with positive role models.
Just because someone wants to be a mentor or has a fancy title or earns a six figure income doesn’t mean they will be a positive influence on teens. Our job is to find the people who want to help tens and who are able to connect with them in a meaningful way. Seek someone who understands teens and won’t judge or pity them. We have all heard the phrase “meet them where they are”. I caution you to find someone who can meet teens where they are and motivate them to get to the next level (in life). Remember that a positive role model doesn’t have to be someone you or your teen knows personally – books, the internet, and even television can offer teens someone or something to aspire to.
2. Give youth something positive to do.
There are countless opportunities available for teens to get into trouble. When teens have things to do that are fun, positive, and purposeful they are less likely to take part in negative activities. A sport, a club, a hobby, a job, a business, a volunteer opportunity are ways to encourage responsibility, build leadership, and promote youth safety. Teens need something to believe in as much as they need someone to believe in them.
3. Give youth the opportunity to be a part of the solution.
The best way to promote youth violence prevention is through other youth. The best way to find out what teens feel, want, and care about is to ask them. Every teen wants to know that they matter. They want to feel appreciated and have their voices heard. Allow your teen to take part in opportunities that empower them to make the world a safer place. Options include joining youth advisory boards, becoming a mentor, writing a blog, or enrolling in community contests (public service announcements, art, poetry, etc.).
BOOK RECOMMENDATION:
THE PACT: Three Young Men Make a Promise and Fulfill a Dream
Drs. Sampson Davis, George Jenkins, and Rameck Hunt
Related Post: How Are You Empowering Your Youth?
Nicki Sanders, MSW, Chief Visionary Officer
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